Do you teach your children love and inclusion?

Unconditional love and emotional security make a child more confident and less vulnerable to psychological disorders.

How can I teach my child love and inclusion through examples or stories?

Wow! ❤️ Your question is one of the most beautiful questions because love and inclusiveness are the foundation on which a child is raised.

To become a balanced, confident person who treats others with love and compassion.

Here I will share with you how to teach your child love and inclusion with simple steps, practical examples, and a suitable short story.

✅ How do I teach my child love and integration?

🔹1️⃣ Give him unconditional love.
Always tell him that you love him no matter what he does wrong: "I love you even if I get angry with you... But sometimes I get upset by your behavior." This makes him feel safe.

🔹 2️⃣ Hug and touch him constantly.
Research indicates that hugs and touch reassure children and increase their self-confidence. Get him used to hugging him in the morning, before school, and before bed.

🔹 3️⃣ Praise him when he shows kind feelings.
If he helps his brother or gives his friend a piece of candy, praise him by saying, "You have a kind heart! I love that you share it with others."

🔹 4️⃣ Teach him to ask about others' feelings.
For example, if he sees someone sad, say to him, "Let's ask your brother why he's sad and console him."

🔹 5️⃣ Show him your love with actions, not just words.
Play with him, sit with him without his phone, and listen to him, even if he says something simple.

📖 Short story: (The Flower of Love)

Once upon a time, there was a boy named Sami who planted a small flower in his garden. Every morning, Sami would water the flower and say to it gently, "Good morning, my flower. I hope you grow up to be the most beautiful flower in the garden." Days passed, and the flower grew and became more beautiful. His little brother came and asked him:

“Why is your flower bigger than mine?”

Sami answered with a smile,
“Because I love it, take care of it, and speak to it kindly. Try watering your flower and loving it like me.”

The brother did so, and soon, all the flowers in the garden became beautiful because Sami had taught his brother that love makes everything beautiful and bigger.

🏅 Practical examples

✅ Kiss your child in front of others. Don't say, "You're too old for this."
✅ Tell him you're proud of him when he helps someone or shares his toy.
✅ Have him visit his grandmother or a sick friend with you, so he learns empathy.
✅ Hug him when he's scared or sad. Don't say, "You're too old to cry." Instead, say, "Cry, I'm with you."

🌱 Summary

Children don't learn love from books, but from their mothers' and fathers' hugs, words, and daily actions. You are the source of their first love, and they will imitate you in expressing their love to those around them.